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How can one cling to the soothing mother while at the same time escaping from her suffocating grip?
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Akhtar (2000) summarizes the concept of psychic pain as follows: "A wordless longing, a feeling of tearing in the self and psychic helplessness... ambiguous and very difficult to convey to others. It usually occurs after the loss of an important object or when that object suddenly rejects the person's anaclitic (support-based) needs.This text has been automatically translated from Turkish. Show Original
It was as if he wanted to keep himself busy to avoid the emptiness inside him.
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...history is never truly left behind. So the past never dies; It lives in the mind, never to disappear.
Turner (1938) defines the intertwined nature of past and present in prose and sees the present as the raw future and the past as the raw present.Yas tutmak gereklidir, çünkü gerçekçi yararlılıklarını kaybetmiş bağları ve tutumları bırakmamıza izin verir, bu sayede büyümeyi ve gelişmeyi kolaylaştırır.
Khan (1979), Joseph (1982) ve Kogan'ın (1990) konu üzerine yazdıklarını temel alan Akhtar (2000) psişik acı kavramını şu şekilde özetler: "Sözsüz bir özlem, kendilikte yırtılma ve psişik çaresizlik duygusu ... muğlak ve başkalarına aktarılması çok zor. Genellikle önemli bir nesnenin kaybını ya da o nesnenin kişinin anaklitik (destek temelli) gereksinimlerini ansızın reddetmesinin ardından ortaya çıkar" (s. 229).