Kitap, adından da anlaşılacağı üzere, her biri başlı başına bir öğreti olan dört anlaşmayı hayatımıza uygulamanın öneminden bahsediyor.
1.Anlaşma: ‘"Kullandığın Sözcükleri Özenle Seç’’
2.Anlaşma: ‘’Hiçbir Şeyi Kişisel Algılama’’
3.Anlaşma: ‘’Varsayımda Bulunma’’
4.Anlaşma: "Daima Yapabildiğinin En İyisini Yap’’
Dört anlaşma”nın ilki,
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When you get into a relationship with someone you like, you usually try to find reasons why you like that person. You only see what you want to see and deny the things you don't like about that person. Then you make assumptions. One of these assumptions is this:" I can change this person with my love." But this is not true. Your love can't change anyone. If someone changes, it is because they choose to change, not because of your power to change them.
After a while something happens between you two and you get hurt. Suddenly you start seeing things you didn't want to see before. Moreover, now your emotional poison has brought what you see to gigantic proportions. Now you blame that person for your emotional pain.