Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
John GrayQuotes
She wants empathy, but he thinks she wants solutions.
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Like their Martian ancestors, men pride themselves on being experts, especially when it comes to fixing mechanical things, getting places, or solving problems.
Venusians firmly believe that when something is working it can always work better.
Asking for help when you can do it yourself is perceived as a sign of weakness.
However, if he truly does need help, then it is a sign of wisdom to get it.
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When a woman tries to improve a man, he feels she is trying to fix him. He receives the message that he is broken. She doesn’t realize her caring attempts to help him may humiliate him. She mistakenly thinks she is just helping him to grow.
Fortunately perfection is not a requirement for creating great relationships.
Biz müvəffəqiyyətli münasibətləri nece icra etmək lazım olduğunu öyrənən saf,günahsız uşaqlar deyilik.Valideynlərimiz tərəfindən,içində yetişdirildiyimiz mədəniyyət və yaşadığımız ağrılı təcrübələr ilə proqramlaşdırılmışıq.Bu yeni,sevgi dolu münasibətlər qurma müdrikliyini həyatımıza inteqrasiya etmək,iddialı bir cəhd tələb edir.
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