Pek çok kez birbirimizle koruyucu katmanlarımız aracılığı ile ilişki kurduğumuzdan kayboluyoruz. Kalplerde buluşmaya çalışıyoruz, ama eğer dış katmanda yaşıyorsak kalbimizi açamıyoruz. Diğer insanı etkilemek veya değiştirmek istediğimiz sürece korumadayız, kırılgan değiliz. Buna beklentiye girmek, karşımızdakini incitmeyi, kontrol etmeyi, suçlamayı veya manipüle etmeyi istemek, alaycı konuşmak, diğer insanın sözünü kesmek veya yargılamak da dahildir. Bu enerjiyle her yaklaştığımızda saldırıya geçmiş oluyoruz. Ve bu saldırı kendi koruyucu katmanımızdan kaynaklanıyor. Many times we get lost because we relate to each other through our protective layers. We try to meet in the heart, but if we live in the outer layer we cannot open our heart. As long as we want to influence or change the other person, we are protected, we are not vulnerable. This includes expecting, wanting to hurt, control, blame or manipulate, speaking sarcastically, interrupting or judging the other person. Every time we approach with this energy, we are under attack. And this attack comes from our own protective layer.
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Tell him, Nico di Angelo, said Cupid, voice sounding a lot like someone Nico knew. Tell him that you are a coward, afraid of yourself and your feelings. Tell him the real reason you left Camp Half-Blood, and why you are always alone. The word echoed around Nico’s head in that strangely familiar voice: coward, coward, coward. That’s what he was,
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Control of Thoughts
+"Kontrolü hangi arada elden kaçırdığımı anlayamıyorum, adeta hipnotize olmuş gibi düşüncelerimin esiri oluyorum." -"Otomatik düşüncelerinin ne kadar çok farkına varırsan seni o kadar az ele geçirirler. Bu kısır döngüden çıkmak için sürekli gözlem yapman gerekir. İlk başlarda dikkatini birkaç dakika yoğunlaştırman yeterli, sonra bu süreyi her gün biraz daha uzatırsın ve nihayet bir gün bu süreç doğal bir şekilde kendiliğinden işlemeye başlar." +"I can't understand when I lost control, I become a slave to my thoughts as if I were hypnotized." -"The more you become aware of your automatic thoughts, the less they will take over you. To get out of this vicious circle, you need to constantly observe. At first, it is enough to concentrate your attention for a few minutes, then you can extend this period a little more every day, and finally one day, this process will become natural." "It starts to work on its own."
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Damien takes a deep breath and clenches his fists. “Oh, so you do want to go home then?” his tone has lost some of its playful teasing and his eyes are just stern from anger. He steps in closer to her. “Well, what if I told you that you are not going home right now?” he speaks in a firm and cold tone. butterflys goes to her stomach, she loves when he talks like that but she's not going to show that. "Then... Wehere am I going?" Damien bites his bottom lip and looks at her. There’s now no teasing in his tone just authority and control. “My place…that’s where you’re going” he says and steps even closer to her, looking down at her. He runs his fingers through her hair and pulls it back behind her head. His other arm is wrapped around her waist, he pulls her even closer towards him.
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Boş şeylerin içinde kaybolmak
İşinizin karmaşıklığı sizi bunaltır. Her şeyi daha iyi denetlemek için tüm ayrıntıların ve küresel trendlerin üzerinde olmanız gerektiğini hissedersiniz ama bilgiler sizi boğar. Ağaçlardan dolayı ormanı görememek işte budur. Bu, önceliklerinizi yani hangi gerçeklerin daha önemli olduğu, hangi sorun ya da ayrıntılara daha fazla dikkat edilmesi gerektiği duygusunu yitirdiğinizin bir işaretidir. You feel overwhelmed by the complexity of your work. You feel the need to be on top of all the details and global trends so you can control things better, but you are drowning in information. It is hard to see the proverbial forest for the trees. This is a sure sign that you have lost a sense of your priorities—which facts are more important, what problems or details require more attention.
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🎵Anathema-Lost Control🎵🎧
“But mostly, Grayson remembered the moment they’d lost control of the narrative—and the way he’d taken that control back.”
Virginity isn't a medical term. it's a social construct. And because of this, you get to decide when you've lost your virginity. Even the term "Lost your virginity" is fucked up. It's not something you can leave on the bus! You are in control of whether you identify as a virgin or not.
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As a result of the experience of consistent parental love and caring throughout childhood, such fortunate children will enter adulthood not only with a deep internal sense of their own value but also with a deep internal sense of security. All children are terrified of abandonment, and with good reason. This fear of abandonment begins around the
Now tears come at unexpected moments for no obvious reason and they pour forth with ferocity. They scare the hell out of me. It scares the hell out me to be so lost and helpless and out of control and afraid.
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