Sevgi aynı zamanda psikolojide "psikolojik pain," yani "psikolojik ağrı" denilen korkunun ilacıdır.
Sayfa 316 - Timaş YayınlarıKitabı okudu
I find it almost shocking to realize how common it is for people to have feelings of inferiority deep inside. There must be a cultural reason for this that is reflected in the way we are managed as children and therefore the way we develop. This is a subject that should be studied intensively and no doubt will be someday. These feelings of inferiority are deep and hidden but reveal themselves through our behavior. We generally overcompensate for bad feelings, so if we feel weak, we act strong.
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no pain, no gain ;)
Şairin dediği gibi:
"...insanoğlu hakkını vermeden çabasız,
edilemez huzurlu hayatı tasasız."
[René François Armand Prudhomme]
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The work of Dr. Hans Selye is credited with first drawing attention to how stress affects the body; his research and writing were prolific and stand as one of the major ac complishments of medicine in the twentieth century. Dr. Selye's definition of biological stress is "the nonspecific response of the body to any demand made upon it."
Stress can be either external or internal to the individual. Examples of external stress are your job, financial problems, illness, change of job or home, caring for children or parents. However, the internal stressors appear to be more important in the production of tension. These are one's own personality attributes, like conscientiousness, perfectionism, the need to excel, and so forth. People often say that they have a very stressful job and that's why they're tense. But if they weren't conscientious about doing a good job, if they weren't trying to succeed, achieve, and excel, they wouldn't generate tension. Often such people are highly competitive and determined to get ahead. Typically, they are more critical of themselves than others are of them.
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Spasm is a state of extreme contraction (tightening, tensing) of the muscles, an abnormal condition that may be horrifically painful.
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“Sometimes, our pain is very deep and real, and we stand before her very silent, because there is no language for our pain, only a moan. Night's heart is full of pity for us: she cannot ease our aching; she takes our hand in hers, and the little world grows very small and very far away beneath us, and, borne on her dark wings, we pass for a moment into a mightier Presence than her own, and in the wondrous light of that great Presence, all human life lies like a book before us, and we know that Pain and Sorrow are but angels of God.”
...when the world felt dark and scary, love could whisk you off to go dancing; laughter could take some of the pain away; beauty could punch holes in your fear.
“The pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.”
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Often people are programmed to have pain because of things they have heard or been told a practitioner. "Never bend at the waist" means the onset of pain is a sure thing when they bend from then on, although it may never have caused pain before. Someone says that sitting compresses the lower end of the spine-so, of course, it's got to hurt when you sit. Standing in one place, lifting, carrying all have a bad reputation and will quickly be conditioned into a patient's pattern.
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Why don't we ever get to choose anything for ourselves, Dad? We might think we're choosing, but all we're really doing is grasping at thin air. We don't even get to choose which way to step with our own two feet. Tell me, Dad. What if something happens to Nanako, and she gets hurt, and she's crying and in terrible pain? What could I do for her? I can't rush to her side, I can't even send her messages by flashlight. What do we grow up for anyway? When we grow up, do we finally get to decide something for ourselves? Do we finally get to step whicever way we want without having to lose the peole we love?
Kodansha InternationalKitabı okudu
