"Describe life as it is and in spite of what it is" these are words of Kafka and Dostoevsky, these have found love within melancholy as those who are capable of practising radical sincerity until their last breath..
Chapter Seventeen
“I’m sorry.” His face darkened with sincerity. “I know I didn’t have a right to talk about you like a trophy to be won from your father. And I’m sorry for warning Mr. Hobson to keep his son away from you.” He smiled tightly. “I would say I did that for your benefit, but really, I did it for me.” His eyes fell on my chest. “I don’t do well with competition.”
eheheh Penn, neden bu kadar hoşsun?
Hypergamy doesn't care
Hipergami, çocuklarınız için ne kadar iyi bir Baba olduğunuzu umursamıyor.
Hipergami, ona daha iyi uyum sağlamak için üniversitedeki bölümlerinizi ve hayattaki kariyer seçiminizi nasıl yeniden düzenlediğinizi umursamaz.
Evde oturan bir baba olarak kendinizi ne kadar ilham verici veya tatmin olmuş hissettiğiniz hipergaminin umrunda
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İnsan kendi samimiyetinin altını çizmeye çalıştı mı ister istemez üstünü de çiziyor.
When a person tries to underline their own sincerity, they inevitably end up highlighting their flaws as well.
Mohammad Esfahani - Tanha Mandam
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I'm Left Alone
I'm left alone, I'm left alone
I'm left alone with my heart
I'm left like an alas on lips
I didn't tell my secret to anyone
In any event, the key to defending ourselves against passive aggressors is to recognize what they are up to as early as possible.
The following are the most common strategies employed by such aggressors, and ways to counter them.
The Subtle-Superiority Strategy: A friend, colleague, or employee is chronically late, but he or she always has a
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It might seem that the reverse tactic would be to reveal everything about yourself, to be completely honest about your faults and virtues. This kind of sincerity was a quality Lord Byron had—he almost got a thrill out of disclosing all of his nasty, ugly qualities, even going so far, later on in his life, as to tell people about his incestuous involvements with his half sister. This kind of dangerous intimacy can be immensely seductive. The target will poeticize your vices, and your honesty about them; they will start to see more than is there. In other words, the idealization process is unavoidable. The only thing that cannot be idealized is mediocrity, but there is nothing seductive about mediocrity. There is no possible way to seduce without creating some kind of fantasy and poeticization.
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