You’re supposed to have a job,somewhere to live,a family,you’re supposed to pay taxes and remember the password of Wi-Fi. Some of us never manage to get the chaos under control, so our lives simply carry on, the world spinning through space at two million miles an hour while we bounce about on its surface like so many lost socks. Our hearts are bars of soap that we keep losing hold of; the moment we relax, they drift off and fall in love and get broken, all in the wink of an eye. We’re not in control. So we learn to pretend, all the time, about our jobs and our marriages and our children and everything else. We pretend we’re normal, that we’re reasonably well educated, that we understand “amortization levels” and “inflation rates.” We don’t have a plan, we just do our best to get through the day, because there’ll be another one coming along tomorrow.
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suicide cowardice
Those who accuse suicides of cowardice fail to see just how demanding the task of killing oneself can be. Suicide is difficult because of the formidable life drive that animates most people, even most of those who eventually take their own lives.
Even if some people lose all will to live, many others who kill themselves would like to continue living if it were not so burdensome. They have to overcome their will to live in order to take their lives. This is not easy at all. It is thus unsurprising that more people contemplate suicide than attempt it, and there are more attempted suicides than successful ones.
Given the resolve that some people have to muster in order to take their own lives, combined with the futility or severity of their circumstances, it may well be that suicide is—at least sometimes—the more courageous option than remaining alive.
If you have feelings for someone, let them know. It doesn’t matter if they can be in your life or not. Maybe, it is just enough for both of you to release the truth, so healing can occur. The opposite is true, as well. If you don’t have feelings for someone then never let another person suggest that you do. Protect your reputation and be responsible for the wrong information spread about you. Never allow anyone to live with a false belief or unfounded hope about you. An honorable person sets the record straight, so that person can move on with their life.
Birine karşı hisleriniz varsa, onlara itiraf edin. Hayatınızda olup olmadıkları önemli değil. Belki ikinizin de gerçeği salıvermesi yeterlidir, böylece şifa bulabilirsiniz. Bunun tersi de doğrudur. Birine karşı bir şeyler hissetmiyorsanız, o zaman asla başka birinin size bunu dayatmasına izin vermeyin. İtibarınızı koruyun ve hakkınızda yayılan yanlış bilgilerin sorumluluğunu taşıyın. Asla kimsenin sizin hakkınızda yanlış bir inanç veya temelsiz bir umutla yaşamasına izin vermeyin. Onurlu bir kişi, rekoru düzeltir, böylece kişi hayatına devam edebilir.
Seven common denominators among those who successfully build wealth.
1. They live well below their means.
2. They allocate their time, energy, and money efficiently, in
ways conducive to building wealth.
3. They believe that financial independence is more important
than displaying high social status.
4. Their parents did not provide economic outpatient care.
5. Their adult children are economically self-sufficient.
6. They are proficient in targeting market opportunities.
7. They chose the right occupation.
They say:
Travel and tell no one,
Live a true love story and tell no one,
Live happily and tell no one,
Because people always ruin beautiful things
“Mankind is a rope fastened between animal and overman – a rope over an abyss.
A dangerous crossing, a dangerous on-the-way, a dangerous looking back, a dangerous shuddering and standing still.
What is great about human beings is that they are a bridge and not a purpose: what is lovable about human beings is that they are a crossing
over and a
Little happiness
The men where you live raise five hundred roses in the garden. And they do not find what they are looking for. They could find what they need just in one single rose, or in a little water. But their eyes are so blind... One must look with the heart.
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People who live on hills sleep so close to the stars they forget those of us who live too much on earth.
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THE ARTS OF SAYİNG NO
My favourite sentence .
Because freedom is not what you think,just the opposite it's about having a clear and strong border we have.
In other words as much as you say no you take care of your freedom border.
When people argue with other people they actually argue with themselves.
Your limits are who you are.
I don't have to disrupt the program for other people's special work.
There is no guilt,fear and anxiety in an effective no.
What happens if you change your priority?
you just live the complexity.
Your baundries which you sacrifice for the sake of being loved ,respected ,living in peace and staying away from conflict became your prison.
When you can't say no you are not free.
Everyone in your life is pulling by your ropes and throwing you from place to place.
Your boundaries do not have to make you unreachable İts have to be functional for the healthy and happy.
In all anxiety have basis insignificance,losing , fear of not being love,and to be valued expectation actually all of them is based on lack of self-confidence
When you hear ‘you make it right’ if you feel well and you maintain what you are doing, actually external effects have a major impact on you.