In its revolutionary struggles, the working class needs organization. When great masses have to act as a unit, a mechanism is needed for understanding and discussion, for the making and issuing of decisions, and for the proclaiming of actions and aims.
Anton Pannekoek
Bu özgürlük temelde kendimize ve başkalarına karşı daha cömert bir ruh benimsemekten gelir. İnsanları kabul ederek, anlayarak ve eğer mümkünse yapılarını severek zihnimizi takıntılı ve önemsiz duygulardan armdırabiliriz. Başkalarının yaptığı ve söylediği her şeye tepki vermekten vazgeçebiliriz. Aramıza mesafe koyabiliriz ve her şeyi kişisel
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Yet not for us to forget is our escape from a long nightmare
The exchange of a monstrous world for one relatively sane. To see, and where we can to disentangle, the facts of Nature free from those perplexing mysteries which were in truth not there. There remains and to spare of deeper mystery. The mystery of Nature needs no superstition. Leonardo's Note- books, portraying Nature without superstition, are yet per- vaded by its mystery. Today man can go out into the natural world without carrying the distortion of monstrosity with him. We can interrogate the natural world with a confidence drawn from riddance of misunderstanding no less than from extension of understanding. We can see with whom it is we talk. What wears a divine livery can without fear or favour display it to man's gaze. The position for reading from Nature's lips what she may have to say of Godhead never yet in the past was what it is for us today.
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You've probably been told before that you can't change other people; no amount of nagging insisting, demanding or manipulating will do it. But what you can do is understand other people's motivations, needs and emotions. Once you have a better understanding of what someone is feeling, once you can make sense of and see meaning in their emotions, you are better placed to manage the other person and their emotions.
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-Gerçek bilgelik, başkalarının isteklerine kendi irademizi dayatmaya çalışmaktan ziyade, etrafımızdaki insanların ihtiyaçlarını ve isteklerini anlamakta ve onlara en iyi şekilde hizmet etmeye çalışmakta yatar.
-True wisdom lies not in trying to impose one's will on others, but in understanding the needs and desires of those around us and seeking to serve them as best we can.
Effective communication works on the understanding that we
all have very specific needs in relationships, many of which are
determined by your attachment style. They aren't good or bad,
they simply are what they are. If you're anxious, you have a strong
need for closeness and have to be reassured at all times that your
partner loves and respects you. If you're avoidant, you need to be
able to maintain some distance, either emotional or physical, from
your partner and preserve a large degree of separateness. In order
to be happy in a relationship, we need to find a way to commu-
nicate our attachment needs clearly without resorting to attacks
or defensiveness.
If anything it will free you to have a better, healthier future relationship with someone who is genuinely important to you – a relationship based on genuine desire, mutual respect, complimentary understanding of each other and love, rather than one based on a fear of losing your ONE and only representation of contentment in this life. In any relationship, the person with the most power is the one who needs the other the least.
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Veritaserum
‘Because he needs to understand,’ said Dumbledore curtly. ‘Understanding is the first step to acceptance, and only with acceptance can there be recovery.’
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