The horse and rider must work together. This means we consider our actions beforehand; we bring as much thinking as possible to a situation before we make a decision. But once we decide what to do, we loosen the reins and enter action with boldness and a spirit of adventure.
Therefore, your first step toward the rational is always inward. You want to catch that Emotional Self in action. For this purpose, you must reflect on how you operate under stress. What particular weaknesses come out in such moments—the desire to please, to bully or control, deep levels of mistrust? Look at your decisions, especially those that have been ineffective—can you see a pattern, an underlying insecurity that impels them?
We go through the motions, pretending to reflect on what we did. But with the passage of time, the pleasure principle rises and we forget what small part in the mistake we ascribed to ourselves.
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Sayfa 159 - Cem YayıneviKitabı okudu
I see that you belong to the lower orders; a person of my position is never useful. We have certain accomplishments, and that is more than sufficient.
Sayfa 78Kitabı okudu
You don’t have to be rich, you
don’t have to be famous, and you don’t have to have a fancy
résumé or a degree from an expensive school. Online,
everyone—the artist and the curator, the master and the
apprentice, the expert and the amateur—has the ability to
contribute something.
“The fellow-pupil can help more than
the master because he
