A Japanese legend says:
If you miss the bus, perhaps you were saved from an accident; if you are rejected, perhaps you were saved from a place that doesn't suit you; and if someone leaves, perhaps they are making way for someone who deserves to stay. Not all losses are punishments, and not all closed doors are finals. Sometimes, life protects us in ways that initially seem like bad luck. Trust the twists and turns you haven't yet understood, for some salvation comes disguised as disappointment.
The greatest act of self-Love is to no longer accept a Life you are unhappy with.
It is to be able to state the problem plainly and in a straightforward manner.