From the best love confessions...Alıntı
When she started biting her bottom lip nervously, he couldn’t help but feel his heart swell even more. Her nerves and the way he was being so honest about his feelings was making him feel something deep inside of him for the girl in front of him.
He continued to keep an open and relaxed face after she asks him those questions, he had an answer prepared for her.
“I may not know everything about you yet but that doesn't change the facts that I already can tell that you are everything I am looking for in a woman.”
She looks at him under her eyelashes.
"And what are you looking for in a women?"
He took in a slow breath before he replied to her. His replies were getting slower and a little bit quieter now that they were talking about deeper things. He thought about what she asked of him for a bit before he finally answered her.
"Someone who isn't afraid to be herself, someone who can make me want to be a better person, and someone I can trust. These three things are extremely important to me... and I feel like you have all of them in you."
grief and melancholia
in melancholia,there's an anger towards that person for not actually giving them the understanding that they needed. which results in turning against one's self.
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in melancholia,there's a confusion about what that relationship meant,so you can't displace it somewhere else,cuz you simply don't know.
there's a desire to command that lost object, to make it yours and put it under your control. (narcissistic)
so you have to move beyond the abject, recognize the object is no longer valuable to you. let lit leave.
or understand what it all meant. so that you can finally move onto mourning.