Flattery gets you everywhere
Sometimes, sucking up to someone can really work. You don’t want to be inauthentic or too over the top with what compliments you’re giving to another person, but it’s still important to remember just how much a little extra love can go. There’s a chance you’re already thinking the things you want to say anyway, so why not tell them how you feel, as long as it’s positive.
Flattery doesn’t just have to be telling someone how gorgeous or smart they are. It can be as simple as picking up their favorite snack when you’re at the store or remembering to ask how their vacation went if you know they went away for the weekend. Some people might see these things as “kissing ass,” or “brown nosing,” but trying to make a positive connection should be part of our everyday life.
Even if someone sees what you’re doing, they’re still appreciative of your conscious effort to make a connection. It can be pretty obvious in some instances that a person is trying to flatter you, especially if they’re normally closed off or seemingly careless. While some people can be bothered by this, most will still appreciate the effort you’re putting into trying to make a connection with them.
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