" ' It's the same with the wounds in our heart. We need to give them our attention so that they can heal. Otherwise, the wound continues to cause us pain. Sometimes for a very long time. We're all going to get hurt. That's just the way it is. But here's the trick about the things that hurt us and cause us pain- they also serve an amazing purpose. When our hearts are wounded that's when they open. We grow through the pain. We grow through difficult situations. That's why you have to embrace each and every difficult thing in your life.' "