"Sometimes, if I can't feel something like the warmth of a wonam's skin, I get so lonely I can't stand it."
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"They hurry each other and know not where to. They heat each other up and know not why. They jingle with their tin, they jangle with their gold.
They are cold and they seek warmth in distilled liquors; they are over-heated and seek coolness in frozen spirits; they are all sick and addicted to public opinion. All lusting and malignancy are at home here."
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“Oh Zarathustra, this is the big city: here you have nothing to gain and everything to lose.
Why do you want to wade through this mud? Have pity on your feet! Spit on the city gate instead and – turn around!
Here is hell for hermit’s thoughts; here great thoughts are boiled alive and cooked till they are small.
Here all great feelings rot; here only tiny, rattlebone feelings are allowed to rattle!
Do you not already smell the slaughter houses and kitchens of the spirit? Does this town not steam with the reek of slaughtered spirit?
Do you not see the souls hanging like limp dirty rags? – And they even make newspapers out of these rags!
Do you not hear how the spirit here turned into wordplay? It vomits dirty dish-word water! – And they even make newspapers out of this dirty dish-word water.
They hurry each other and know not where to. They heat each other up and know not why. They jingle with their tin, they jangle with their gold.
They are cold and they seek warmth in distilled liquors; they are over-heated and seek coolness in frozen spirits; they are all sick and addicted to public opinion. All lusting and malignancy are at home here."
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Susanne Veit ve arkadaşlarının beş Avrupa ülkesinde yapmış oldukları bir araştırmada sıcaklığın (warmth: samimiyet, dürüstlük, içtenlik vs.) ve yetkinliğin (competence: zeki, üretken, müteşebbis vs.) iş görüşmelerindeki (işe) kabul edilme ihtimaline etkisi incelenmiş ve netice olarak da yetkinliğin işe kabul edilme ihtimalini artırdığı bulgusuna karşın sıcaklığın/sevecenliğin işe alımlarda hiçbir etkisinin olmadığı (warmth signals had no effect) gözlenmiştir. Bunun en temel sebebi çağdaş bireyin, çalışmanın ve bitimsiz bir performans sergileme buyruğunun ikame edildiği mezkûr atmosferde sermayeye değer kazandırdığı oranda değerli addediliyor oluşudur
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The Art of Peace is a form of prayer that generates light and heat. Forget about your little self, detach yourself from objects, and you will radiate light and warmth.
Light is wisdom; warmth is compassion.
Duygusal olarak aç bırakılan çocuklar üzerine.
Growing up emotionally neglected is like nearly dying of thirst outside the fenced off fountain of a parent’s warmth and interest. Emotional neglect makes children feel worthless, unlovable and excruciatingly empty. It leaves them with a hunger that gnaws deeply at the center of their being. They starve for human warmth and comfort.
