maladaptive daydreaming
“Maladaptive daydreaming is ultimately driven by a craving for life and there’s nothing wrong with that, it’s just that this passion exist in a wrong place.”
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maladaptive daydreaming
“Maladaptive daydreamers, use their daydreaming as a coping mechanism expressing in their daydreams what they fail to express in real life. Looking closer at Walters daydreams we can see that they are exactly that. They are the feelings he didn’t express, the words he didn’t say, the journeys he never made, the beliefs he didn’t defend. In short, it is the life he hasn’t lived, the life that is only accessible to him in fantasy. By escaping into his daydreams, Walter just like any other addict cuts ties with his identity and ego, and therefore all the insecurities and problems that are bothering him which as the blog points out is why daydreaming feels so damn good.”
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Okur Takip Önerileri
The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse
Olaylar kontrolden çıktığında hemen yanındaki sevdiklerine odaklan… Fırtına geçecektir.
The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse
“Olaylara nasıl tepki verdiğimiz en büyük özgürlüklerimizden biridir.”
Imagine if someone learned your love language just to treat you right and make you feel loved properly.
Love and Other Drugs
You meet thousands of people, and none of them really touch you. And then you meet one person, and your life is changed forever.
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Şehir
Yeni bir ülke bulamazsın, başka bir deniz bulamazsın.
Bu şehir arkadan gelecektir.
Sen gene aynı sokaklarda dolaşacaksın,
Aynı mahallede koşacaksın;
aynı evlerde kır düşecek saçlarına.
Dönüp dolaşıp bu şehre geleceksin sonunda.
Başka bir şey umma —
Ömrünü nasıl tükettiysen burada, bu köşecikte,
öyle tükettim demektir bütün yeryüzünü de.
Konstantinos Kavafis