The first (and best) example of an attraction switch is preselection. If a woman notices that other women are already attracted to a certain man, then she will also tend to feel more attracted to him as a result of his being pre-selected by other females.
The game isn’t about getting women. It’s about becoming the sort of man whose way of being naturally causes women to desire him and to draw near to him.
Your outside circumstances are the natural expression of your character through time. This is the secret—the nature of personal reality.
Being rich isn’t really about having money. It’s about being a certain kind of person on the inside, such that money becomes naturally abundant in your life.