After school she told Mom about it, only to become more upset when Mom tried to comfort her by suggesting that she should be happy with being “good enough.” “Don’t be so hard on yourself,” Mom said. Everyone was missing the point. This feeling of being misunderstood sent young Hung Yi into an unknown sadness. Revisiting the memory of that day, Hung Yi mused that the teacher’s warning against pessimism and Mom’s advice on flexibility had likely backfired. She grew to defend her points of view even more.