Forcing yourself to do something when every cell in your body is screaming 'no' just leads to panic. It's difficult to know the difference between forcing yourself to do something that's not good for you, and being scared of doing something that is good for you. If the fear is excitement, then feel it and do it anyway. But if it's about the massive amount of willpower that's required to do something out of societal pressure, then that's different.
Bazı hikâyeler tam tahmin ettiğin gibi ilerler. Bazılarıysa son sayfada tüm bildiklerini sorgulatır. 🤯
Ters köşeleri seviyorsan, seni sonuna kadar merakta bırakacak 3 kitap önerisini keşfetmeye hazır ol!
But Philippa showed me that part of falling in love is letting another person have an impact on you. You're not rigid and unchanging, she told me, you're altered by each other, like two stones rubbing together until suddenly they fit'. The important distinction? When you want to change to keep a partner interested, that's 'adaption', which is bad because you're bending your identity to please another. Whereas when you change alongside another person, that's 'mutual impact', because you're not putting on an act to please anyone. Instead, you're growing, individually and together.