Every addiction starts with pain and ends with pain. Whatever the substance you are addicted to — alcohol, food, legal or illegal drugs, or a person — you are using something or somebody to cover up your pain. That’s why, after the initial euphoria has passed, there is so much unhappiness, so much pain in intimate relationships. They do not cause pain and unhappiness. They bring out the pain and unhappiness that is already in you.
Past and future obviously have no reality of their own. Just as the moon has no light of its own, but can only reflect the light of the sun, so are past and future only pale reflections of the light, power, and reality of the eternal present. Their reality is “borrowed” from the Now.
The mind is essentially a survival machine. Attack and defense against other minds, gathering, storing, and analyzing information-this is what is good at, but it is not all creative. All true artists, whether they know it or not, create from a place of no-mind, from inner stillness.
Evlerden çıkınca gittiğini sananlar / Taşıtlara binince gittiğini sananlar / Bir ülkeden bir ülkeye salıncaklar kurun / Değil mi ki önünüzde ardınızda çocukluğunuz / Bir sitem taşıdır ancak başınızı koyduğunuz.