One would rather have a stranger preferred than one's very particular friend -with a stranger it might not recur again- but the misery of having a very particular friend always at hand, to do every thing better than one does.
But her account of every thing leaves so much to be guessed, she is so very reserved, so very unwilling to give the least information about any body, that I really think you may say what you like of your acquaintance with her.