Studies in the Psychology of Sex
Havelock EllisSözler ve Alıntılar
My entire youth, from six to eighteen, was made miserable from lack of knowledge that any one who knew anything of the nature of puberty might have given; this long sense of defect, dread of operation, shame and worry, has left an indelible mark.
Freedom is only good when it is a freedom to follow the laws of one's own nature; it ceases to be freedom when it becomes a slavish attempt to imitate others, and would be disastrous if it could be successful.
A man's destiny stands not in the future but in the past
A man's sexual nature, like all else that is most essential in him, is rooted in a soil that was formed very long before his birth.
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Cinsiyet-olumsuz bir toplumda yaşadığımız gerçeği nedeniyle hepimiz cinsel istismara uğruyoruz.
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It is now more necessary to show that women have special needs just as men have special needs, and that it is as bad for women, and therefore, for the world, to force them to accept the special laws and limitations of men as it would be bad for men, and therefore, for the world, to force men to accept the special laws and limitations of women. Each sex must seek to reach the goal by following the laws of its own nature, even although it remains desirable that, both in the school and in the world, they should work so far as possible side by side.
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Büyüleyici içgörüler ve karmaşık duygularla ne kadar zengin hissettim, ama aslında söylemem gereken şeyler açısından ne kadar fakir görünüyordum.
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Aşk rafine bir savaştır.
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'Seks Psikolojisi Çalışmaları'