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“Whatever you plan to do, whether it is buying yourself flowers or coffee, do it intentionally and do it romantically. If you decide to go on a dinner date with yourself. Take the effort to look good and put on your favorite dress.”
“We are manipulated into believing that studying is boring, and people who read books and constantly are in search of learning something new are ‘geeks.’ Most movies, books, and series paint this idea in our brain that if you are in your 20s, live wildly, get drunk, do stupid things, and blah blah. The media and entertainment industry have successfully created a belief in our minds that those who study hard in school/college are stupid weird kids who have no means to enjoy life. This is happening intentionally. This whole system is designed carefully. It’s not random that most people prefer to get drunk on weekends instead of sitting down with a book in a nice park or library. It’s not random. It’s designed to make us mentally weak so that we stay a follower, not a leader.”
“And I know it’s easier said than done but enough of making excuses for not trying something you always wanted to. Your inner self has been waiting forever for you to catch up on life and start doing things that matter to you. You have waited enough for others and the world to bring joy to your life, now it’s your turn to intentionally create a joyful life. Not a happy life. But a joyful life. Happiness is a cheap thing. Joy makes life rich. And the good thing is, you can always find at least one source of joy in your life if you look for it intentionally.”
“Before you demand anything from others, learn to be honest with yourself. Have the courage to accept that you were the one killing all your dreams. Stand tall against the lies your brain might want to throw at you. You will meet enough people in your life who will say one thing but their actions won't match. You will meet a lot of people who are going to lie to you. While you cannot control how others treat you, you can learn to be honest with yourself. Deep down you always know what's best for you, you can sense when to leave a person because you are just being used, you realize when you did wrong and when you were wronged yet just stay in your comfort zone and keep things as they are, your brain will play tricks on you. You will make great excuses to convince yourself not to start working, give a person another chance, or keep eating junk food until Monday. That's because honesty with yourself is the toughest thing. You get to live your worst fears and are left with no option but to work to improve things. Yet honesty with yourself will make[…]”
“You cannot build your life by walking in someone else’s footprints.”
“When your soul speaks to you, it speaks with no manipulation, hence you get to know what you truly desire.”
“When it comes to supporting others, we stand tall with them. When it comes to encouraging others, we somehow give a perfect speech that is worthy of featuring in a TedTalk. When it comes to bringing others back to the positive side of life, we all become part-time motivational speakers. However, when it’s time to support ourselves, we somehow manage to leave every bit of ‘Gyan’ behind and push ourselves into a dark tunnel of self-sabotaging.”
“Make your life like a garden where you have all types of people and interests and hobbies so that you always have something or someone to love and receive love. Have friends you adore, enjoy the hobbies you are passionate about, water your plants, and love your pets. Create things and build that relationship around you that keeps you excited so that love is always around you in every form. Life will be more colorful that way”
“People who you love today will leave you or you might have to leave them or they might change. People cannot stay by your side 24/7. We have built a world where chasing success requires going miles away from family and friends. Shifting to a new city for a new job or leaving home for college. Life and people change. Our priorities change.”