“Maladaptive daydreaming is ultimately driven by a craving for life and there’s nothing wrong with that, it’s just that this passion exist in a wrong place.”
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“Maladaptive daydreamers, use their daydreaming as a coping mechanism expressing in their daydreams what they fail to express in real life. Looking closer at Walters daydreams we can see that they are exactly that. They are the feelings he didn’t express, the words he didn’t say, the journeys he never made, the beliefs he didn’t defend. In short, it is the life he hasn’t lived, the life that is only accessible to him in fantasy. By escaping into his daydreams, Walter just like any other addict cuts ties with his identity and ego, and therefore all the insecurities and problems that are bothering him which as the blog points out is why daydreaming feels so damn good.”
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Sevgi duygusunun uygun şekilde gelişmediği bir ailede büyümüş çocukları herhangi bir tür sevgi ifade etmeye itmem oldukça zordur. Hayatı boyunca kaçınma tavrı takınacaktır, tüm sevgi ve yakınlıktan uzaklaşacaktır.
Çocuk, toplumun koyduğu engellere tekrar tekrar çarpar, ta ki hayatta hem güvenlik hem de adaptasyon sunan, dileklerini gerçekleştirebilecek bir yol bulana kadar.
Ancak bireyin tüm hayat stilini keşfettikten ve olgunluktaki tavrıyla birebir aynı olan çocukluk tavrının gizli hedefini belirledikten sonra onu tanıyabiliriz.