Fall in love with someone who loves your life, not just you. One of the biggest mistakes people make is falling for someone who loves them but doesn't love their lifestyle, their dreams, their values, their growth, their relationships, their independence. If someone loves only the parts of you that serve them, it's not love. It's possession.
Real love says, "I don't want to be your whole life. I want to be a part of the life you're living."