Tachjemal Pirliyeva
@bibliotaph
52 okur puanı
Şubat 2021 tarihinde katıldı
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Sometimes it hurts, it really hurts, for no other reason than the fact that our skin doesn’t feel like it’s ours. Sometimes we panic, because the bills need paying and we have to be grown-up and we don’t know how, because it’s so horribly, desperately easy to fail at being grown-up.
Because everyone loves someone, and anyone who loves someone has had those desperate nights where we lie awake trying to figure out how we can afford to carry on being human beings. Sometimes that makes us do things that seem ridiculous in hindsight, but which felt like the only way out at the time.
You’re supposed to have a job,somewhere to live,a family,you’re supposed to pay taxes and remember the password of Wi-Fi. Some of us never manage to get the chaos under control, so our lives simply carry on, the world spinning through space at two million miles an hour while we bounce about on its surface like so many lost socks. Our hearts are bars of soap that we keep losing hold of; the moment we relax, they drift off and fall in love and get broken, all in the wink of an eye. We’re not in control. So we learn to pretend, all the time, about our jobs and our marriages and our children and everything else. We pretend we’re normal, that we’re reasonably well educated, that we understand “amortization levels” and “inflation rates.” We don’t have a plan, we just do our best to get through the day, because there’ll be another one coming along tomorrow.
Bir insanın kafasına girmek için önce onun gönlüne girmek gerekir. Gönüller kazanılmaymca, zihinler ve kafalar fethedilemez...
Bir insan ne kadar eleştirilirse, ne kadar eksik ve açığı aranırsa, o kadar hata yapar, o kadar daha uzaklaşırdı. Ama bir insan ne kadar takdir edilip, olumlu yönleri ön plâna çıkarılıp, önemsenirse o kadar mutlu olur ve başaracağma inanırdı.
Akıllı insanlar açık aramazlar, bilâkis açık kapatırlardı.
Cahil insanlar ise sürekli didikleyip iğneleyerek, insanların daha çok uzaklaşmalarına sebep olurlardı.