“so, anika says most people skew one of two ways as kids. they’re either encouraged to do things themselves, or they have things done for them. the kids who are encouraged to be independent will try things and fail and grow, or they’re given too much freedom and end up feeling lost or abandoned. the kids who have things done for them are typically not as good at taking risks or dealing with the consequences of their actions once they’re adults. but they do feel more comfortable asking for help and are more likely to feel a sense of safety or confidence in a lack of judgment from their family.”
ya queer romance <3 cok bi olay yoktu o yuzden cok bi sey olmamis gibi kisa hissettirdi ki amaci da olaylari takip etmek degil zaten, ikinci kitabi okunurr
“my therapist says your first response to something isn’t really your response. it’s society’s response—or the way you’ve been trained to respond from your environment? but your second response, after you’ve had a minute to think about, you know, how you really feel, that’s the one that matters.”
omggggg sonunda nikobran era!!! cok guzel olucak cok heyecanliyiz bu kitapta baya kavgalilardi ne olduysa ayrica brandon o kadar kapali ki bekledigimizden farkli biri cikicak harika ve nikolai ile olan dinamigini o kadar merak ediyorum ki