What do we do when things go wrong?
Years ago, when I first spotted this book in a stationery shop, I decided to buy it without even flipping through its pages. On the cover, three men were being carried by the river's current toward an unknown destination. The title revealed little more than the image itself: Three Men in a Boat. Where they were going and why remained hidden between the pages.
For some reason, I never got around to reading it. The book sat forgotten on a shelf for years, quietly waiting for me. Then one day I picked it up and finally began. Soon, I discovered why these three men had embarked on such a sudden and peculiar boating trip. Tired of their daily routines and convinced that they were suffering from all sorts of illnesses, they believe an adventure will do them good. Instead, the following two weeks prove far more challenging than expected. They can never quite agree on what should be done or how it should be done. They blame one another, make a mess of simple tasks, and seem incapable of catching a break. Jerome narrates all of this with an exaggerated sense of humor and remarkable wit.
In the end, the three companions more or less accomplish what they set out to do. By the time they return to dry land, they are rather proud of themselves. But perhaps this book was written not only to amuse, but also to make us reflect. As we accompany these three friends like an invisible fourth passenger, we spend much of the journey wanting to step in and sort things out for them.
And yet, when things go wrong in our own lives, what exactly do we do?
Kendimi aldatılmış hissettim. Bir kitap, kendi gerçekliğinden bu kadar kopartılıp nasıl böylesine süslü bir Hollywood aldatmacasına dönüştürülebilir? Üstelik kitaptaki Holly Golightly, filmdeki Audrey Hepburn imajının aksine, tam da bu aldatılma duygusunu hissettirecek bir karakter.
Daha sonra Soğukkanlılıkla ile edebiyat tarihinde bambaşka bir yere oturacak olan Truman Capote’nin —ki 2005 yapımı biyografik filmi Capote muazzamdır— 1958 tarihli Tiffany’de Kahvaltı kitabı, belleklerimizde çoğu zaman Audrey Hepburn’ün siyah elbisesi, vitrinin önünde içilen kahve ve romantik bir şehir anlatısı olarak kalmış olsa da, metnin kendisine dönünce çok daha sert ve çok daha gerçekçi bir hikayeyle karşılaşıyoruz. Filmin aksine kitapta Capote bir aşk hikayesi anlatmıyor; New York’ta kendine yeni bir isim, yeni bir yüz ve yeni bir hayat yaratmaya çalışan Holly Golightly’nin etrafında, insanlığın en eski yara izlerinden birine elini gezdiriyor; insan geçmişinden gerçekten kaçabilir mi, yoksa kaçış dediğimiz şey yalnızca geçmiş suretimizin daha şık giyinmiş hali midir?
Kitabın meşhur Holly Golightly karakteri hakkında onlarca yazı, hatta akademik makale bulmak mümkün; ama Holly’yi sadece “özgür ruhlu kadın” kalıbına indirgeyemeyiz. Zira o, asıl adı Lulamae Barnes olan, taşradan ve erken yaşta içine düştüğü hayattan kaçıp New York’ta kendini baştan yaratmaya çalışan bir kadın. Fakat bu yeni bir Holly yaratama girişimi, özgürleşmeden çok, kırılgan bir kabul edilme çabası gibi duruyor. Holly erkeklerle yemeklere çıkıyor, partilerde dolaşıyor, zengin adamların ilgisini, hediyelerini ve parasını kendi hayatını sürdürmenin bir yolu olarak kullanıyor. Fakat bunu yaparken tam anlamıyla güçlü de değil, tam anlamıyla kurban da değil. Capote’nin karakterini ilginç kılan şey de aslında bu;
A Critical Review of Humankind
Rutger Bregman’s book Humankind is one of the books that questions negative ideas about human nature and makes readers think. For many years, many people believed that humans are naturally selfish, bad, and only care about themselves. However, Bregman does not agree with this idea. According to him, human nature is not as dark as people think. Instead, people are more willing to help each other, understand others’ feelings, and do good things. In the book, the author supports these ideas with many examples from wars, psychology experiments, history, and biology. One of the best parts of the book is that it gives hope about humanity. Still, when I finished the book, I did not only feel admiration. On one side, I was happy to read it because it made me think differently. On the other side, some of the author’s ideas felt too optimistic to me. Because of this, the book was both interesting and questionable for me.
One of the strongest parts of the book is that it makes people question ideas about human nature that many accept without thinking. Today, we often see violence, murder, wars, and fights on television, social media, and in the news. After some time, people start to believe that the world is full of bad people. At this point, Bregman asks an important question: If humans were really bad by nature, how could societies survive for so many years? A big part of human history was shaped by helping each other, working together, and surviving together. From this side, the writer’s ideas are important and meaningful.
His ideas against the belief that humans are naturally wild are especially interesting. Today, when someone behaves badly, people sometimes say, “Did you grow up in a cave?” However, Bregman says that hunter-gatherer societies were not as violent as many
Normal People
There is actually nothing to say about the book, as it doesn’t have any engaging passages or a real plot. We are reading paragraphs about two friends who don’t have any emotional connection with each other but who are only attracted to one another sexually. I mean, normal people have feelings, daily routines, and sometimes interesting dialogues, but these two have absolutely nothing in common, neither daily routines nor any interesting actions happening in their lives.
I chose this book because of its simplicity; it was a good choice for my language level, but there was nothing interesting or appealing in terms of the story or the characters.
It’s good to see new writers doing interesting things, and even if I’m a bit distant from the bestseller shelves or new writers, I’d like to give this book a chance and maybe break my prejudices. Unfortunately, I didn’t like the book and saw it as a waste of time. Saying that makes me a bit sad because Sally Rooney seems to be a courageous person who raises social awareness about what is happening around the world.
I’ll still keep my distance from her books, but I hope that won’t last forever.
Bitirene kadar canım çıktı canım! mesela yazar son 100 sayfayı niye yazmış ve bu adamın tam olarak neresi grumpy kıza baştan beri köpek gibi aşıktı arada arkadaşlarını sinir ediyor diye grumpy mi olacak ne manaaaa??
Ben friends to lovers sevmediğime karar verdim o tension ı hissedemedim kız da başta biraz fazla naz yaptı onu da sevmedim yani bu kitap kısaca olsa da olur olmasa da. O son 100 sayfa olmasa kitap 3 güne biterdi btw
I’m really happy that I read this book at this time of my life—it makes me feel good. I used to think it was only a children’s book. I saw it in my friends’ hands; it was even given as a gift to my younger brother. But I didn’t have one.
Now I have read it in English and I just finished it. Near the end, I started to like it more and I understood its message. Trying for something, not giving up, and working hard… On this way, a person learns to be with themselves, and this is a very nice feeling.
Sometimes we feel tired or hopeless—this is normal. I think feeling all these emotions is a very good thing for a person. And if we understand them and still do something, we are really lucky.
