Untamed
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My children believe that the shower is a magical portal of ideas. My youngest recently said to me, “Mom, it’s like I don’t have any ideas all day, but when I get in the shower my brain is full of cool stuff. I think it’s the water or something.”
“Could be the water,” I said. “Or it could be that the shower’s the only place you’re not plugged in—so you can hear your own thoughts in there.” She looked at me and said, “Huh?”
“That thing that happens to you in the shower, babe. It’s called thinking. It’s something folks did before Google. Thinking is like…it’s like googling your own brain.”
Sayfa 20
There I was, in the twenty-first century, when boys are still being taught that real men are big, bold, violent, invulnerable, disgusted by femininity, and responsible for conquering women and the world. When girls are still being taught that real women must be quiet, pretty, small, passive, and desirable so they’ll be worthy of being conquered. Here we all are. Our sons and daughters are still being shamed out of their full humanity before they even get dressed in the morning.
Sayfa 21
The opposite of sensitive is not brave. It’s not brave to refuse to pay attention, to refuse to notice, to refuse to feel and know and imagine. The opposite of sensitive is insensitive, and that’s no badge of honor.
Sayfa 23
We slow the world down. We’re on the bow of the Titanic, pointing, crying out, “Iceberg! Iceberg!” while everyone else is below deck, yelling back, “We just want to keep dancing!” It is easier to call us broken and dismiss us than to consider that we are responding appropriately to a broken world.
Sayfa 24
The boys looked inside themselves. The girls looked outside themselves. We forgot how to know when we learned how to please. This is why we live hungry.
Sayfa 29
We’re like snow globes: We spend all of our time, energy, words, and money creating a flurry, trying not to know, making sure that the snow doesn’t settle so we never have to face the fiery truth inside us—solid and unmoving.
Sayfa 32
Kadın Olmak - Henüz Çevirisi Yapılmamış Bir Kitaptan
Çocukken, hissetmem gerekenleri hissederdim ve içgüdülerimi takip ederdim ve sadece hayal gücümle plan yapardım. Utançla evcilleştirilene kadar vahşiydim. Çok fazla olma korkusuyla hislerimi saklamaya ve uyuşturmaya başlayana kadar. Kendi sezgilerime güvenmek yerine başkalarının tavsiyelerini dinlemeye başlayana kadar. Ta ki hayal gücümün aptalca ve arzularımın bencilce olduğuna ikna olana kadar. Kendimi başkalarının beklentilerinin, kültürel zorunlulukların ve kurumsal bağlılıkların kafeslerine teslim edene kadar. Olmam gereken kişi olmak için kim olduğumu gömene kadar. Nasıl memnun edeceğimi öğrendiğimde kendimi kaybettim.
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Bugüne Özel Basit Çeviri
Çocukken, hissetmem gerekenleri hissederdim ve içgüdülerimi takip ederdim ve sadece hayal gücümle plan yapardım. Utançla evcilleştirilene kadar vahşiydim. Çok fazla olma korkusuyla hislerimi saklamaya ve uyuşturmaya başlayana kadar. Kendi sezgilerime güvenmek yerine başkalarının tavsiyelerini dinlemeye başlayana kadar. Ta ki hayal gücümün aptalca ve arzularımın bencilce olduğuna ikna olana kadar. Kendimi başkalarının beklentilerinin, kültürel zorunlulukların ve kurumsal bağlılıkların kafeslerine teslim edene kadar. Olmam gereken kişi olmak için kim olduğumu gömene kadar. Nasıl memnun edeceğimi öğrendiğimde kendimi kaybettim.
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"...Feeling all your feelings is hard, but that’s what they’re for. Feelings are for feeling. All of them. Even the hard ones. The secret is that you’re doing it right, and that doing it right hurts sometimes."
Sayfa 48
Every time I said to myself: I can’t take this anymore—I was wrong. The truth was that I could and did take it all—and I kept surviving. Surviving again and again made me less afraid of myself, of other people, of life. I learned that I’d never be free from pain but I could be free from the fear of pain, and that was enough. I finally stopped avoiding fires long enough to let myself burn, and what I learned was that I am like that burning bush: The fire of pain won’t consume me. I can burn and burn and live. I can live on fire. I am fireproof.
Sayfa 49
Like Westley from The Princess Bride, who said, “Life is pain, Highness. Anyone who says differently is selling something.”
Sayfa 50
When a woman finally learns that pleasing the world is impossible, she becomes free to learn how to please herself.
Sayfa 53
I have learned that if I want to rise, I have to sink first. I have to search for and depend upon the voice of inner wisdom instead of voices of outer approval.
Sayfa 56
When a woman finally learns that pleasing the world is impossible, she becomes free to learn how to please her.
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No one has ever lived, or will ever live this life I am attempting to live, with my gifts and challenges and past and people.
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