Fatih Ali Ardıç
@faliardic
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The pain of disappointed trust enters every life. If your parents put your needs first when you were young, it’s disappointing to learn that the rest of the world doesn’t treat you this way. And if your parents were not worthy of your trust, then you learned about disappointment even earlier.
Bizim çocuklar; sizinkiler değil, bizim, hor görülen, ama gene de soylu dilencilerin evlatları henüz dokuz yaşlarına bastıkları zaman bu dünyanın gerçeğine ererler. Zenginler bunu mezara kadar başaramaz. Benim İlyuşka, şehir meydanında herifin ellerini öperken tam o dakikada, gerçeği olduğu gibi anladı. Bu gerçek onun içinde çöreklenip artık ömrünün sonuna kadar rahat vermeyecektir.
Imagine a teenager at a gambling casino. He wins $50, and gets extremely excited. His brain “learns” that gambling triggers that great “I did it!” feeling. He is not consciously telling himself that gambling promotes survival. But the next time he feels bad, the idea of going to a casino lights up. When an evening of gambling doesn’t trigger the great feeling he expects, he gambles more. Soon he’s feeling bad about all the money he lost. The bad feeling drives him to look for a way to feel better, which activates the thought of gambling. You can have a gambling habit at any age. But a young brain more easily builds neural highways big enough to endure despite disappointment.
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