Etik Sürtük
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In his lectures to young communists in Germany during the rise of Hitler and the Nazis, psychologist Wilhelm Reich theorized that the suppression of sexuality was essential to an authoritarian government. Without the imposition of antisexual morality, he believed, people would be free from shame and would trust their own sense of right and wrong. They would be unlikely to march to war against their wishes or to operate death camps.
Doctors and ministers in the late eighteenth century began to claim that masturbation was unhealthy and sinful, that this most innocent of sexual outlets was dangerous to society—male circumcision became commonplace in this era in an effort to discourage masturbation. Any desire for sex, even with yourself, had become a shameful secret.
The more sexually repressive a culture becomes, the more outrageous its covert sexual thoughts and behaviors will become, as any fan of Victorian porn can attest.
Our beliefs about traditional marriage date from agrarian cultures, where you
made everything you ate or wore or used, where large extended families helped get this huge amount of work done so nobody starved, and where marriage was a working proposition. When we talk about “traditional family values,” this is the family we are talking about: an extended family of grandparents and aunts and cousins, an organization structured to accomplish the work of staying alive.
We have all been taught that one way of relating—lifelong monogamous
heterosexual marriage—is the only right way. We are told that monogamy is
“normal” and “natural”; if our desires do not fit into that constraint, we are
morally deficient, psychologically disturbed, and going against nature.
kinsey reis
Today’s liberated sexual mores, including the acceptance of sex before or outside marriage, homosexuality and bisexuality, BDSM, and, yes, poly, owe their existence to Dr. Kinsey’s work.
ya pervert ne alaka!?
Pansexual means including everyone as a sexual being: straight, bi, lesbian, gay, asexual, nonbinary, trans, queer, old, young, disabled, pervert, male, female, questioning, transitioning.
aa aynı ben D:
We are doing our best to make the language in this book as pansexual and gender-neutral as we can: this book is for everybody.
bence o kadar da şey değil ya
People often ask us why we talk so much about sex. We see sex as the elephant in the room: huge, taking up lots of space, and too seldom included in the discourse about relationships.
Cultural blind spots can show up as centrisms: couple-centrism, heterocentrism, eurocentrism. Nonmonogamy, extramarital sex, and open relationships all define themselves by what they aren’t, thus implying that they’re some exception to the “normal” relationships that “normal” people have.