Love is that activity that makes the power of man and woman that incorporates it into your own heart, where you can embody man and woman, when you can embody hell and heaven, when you can reconcile and contain, when man and woman becomes your content. In other words, when your woman becomes your own content, and you become her content, that's love. And you recognize the full equality of that exchange, because if she is smaller than you, she can't fill you. And if you are larger than her, you can't fill her. So there has to be an understanding that there really is an absolute equality of power. Different kinds of power. Obviusly different kinds of magic. Different kinds of strenght, different kinds of movement, that's as different as night and day. And it is night and day. And it is the moon and the sun. And it is the land and the sea. And it is plus and minus. It is heaven and hell. It is all those antonyms. But they are all equal.
Leonard Cohen