Bu, önemli bir noktadır: Partnerlerin değişme potansiyeline sahip olduğuna inanmak, partnerin mutlaka değişeceğine inanmakla karıştırılmamalıdır.
Partnerin değişmek istemesi, değişime bağlılık göstermesi ve değişim yönünde somut adımlar atması gerekir.
Bir partner seçmek, bir problem seti seçmektir.
Sorunsuz aday yoktur. Mesele, birbirinin sınırlılıklarını kabul etmek ve oradan birlikte inşa etmektir.
📚🔔 Tatil zili çaldı!
Bir yıl boyunca verilen emeklerin ardından şimdi dinlenme, keşfetme ve yeni maceralara atılma zamanı. 🌞
Bu yaz bol kahkahalı, bol anılı ve elbette bol kitaplı geçsin. Tüm öğrencilere keyifli tatiller diliyoruz! 💙📖
LLM, however, is hardly a scientific term. How large does a language model have to be to be considered large? What is large today might be considered tiny tomorrow. A model’s size is typically measured by its number of parameters. A parameter is a variable within an ML model that is updated through the training process.7 In general, though this is not always true, the more parameters a model has, the greater its capacity to learn desired behaviors.
When OpenAI’s first generative pre-trained transformer (GPT) model came out in June 2018, it had 117 million parameters, and that was considered large. In February 2019, when OpenAI introduced GPT-2 with 1.5 billion parameters, 117 million was downgraded to be considered small. As of the writing of this book, a model with 100 billion parameters is considered large. Perhaps one day, this size will be considered small.
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Remember, as Alex Rodriguez, the baseball player, wisely said: “You either go one way or the other.” You might as well be the one deciding the direction.
When people drop the good–bad, strong–weak thinking that grows out of the fixed mindset, they’re better able to learn useful strategies that help with self-control. Every lapse doesn’t spell doom. It’s like anything else in the growth mindset. It’s a reminder that you’re an unfinished human being and a clue to how to do it better next time.
When you feel yourself losing it, you can learn to leave the room and write down your ugliest thoughts, followed by what is probably really happening (“She doesn’t understand this is important to me,” “He doesn’t know what to do when I start to blow”). When you feel calm enough, you can return to the situation.