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@usualwanderer
What ho! what ho! this fellow is dancing mad! he hath been bitten by the Tarantula.
All in the Wrong.
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Mart 2017 tarihinde katıldı
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Not to be needed is a slow death for a man.
“Kötü bir anıyı unutmanın en iyi yolu güzel bir tanesiyle değişmektir.”
Men also become particularly frustrated when a woman talks about problems that he can do nothing about.
A man assumes she is talking with him about her problems because she is holding him responsible. The more problems, the more he feels blamed. He does not realize that she is talking to feel better.
To expect a man who is in his cave instantly to become open, responsive, and loving is as unrealistic as expecting a woman who is upset immediately to calm down and make complete sense. It is a mistake to expect a man to always be in touch with his loving feelings just as it is a mistake to expect a woman’s feelings to always be rational and logical.
A way of honoring another Venusian is to listen patiently with empathy, seeking truly to understand the other’s feelings.