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What ho! what ho! this fellow is dancing mad! he hath been bitten by the Tarantula.
All in the Wrong.
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A woman has so much to say that she doesn’t want to be rude and just begin talking. To be polite, instead of talking about her own thoughts and feelings she makes the mistake of asking him questions about his feelings and thoughts. When he has nothing to say, she concludes he doesn’t want to have a conversation with her.
To a certain extent a man loses himself through connecting with his partner. By feeling her needs, problems, wants, and emotions he may lose touch with his own sense of self. Pulling away allows him to reestablish his personal boundaries and fulfill his need to feel autonomous.
Not to be needed is a slow death for a man.
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Men also become particularly frustrated when a woman talks about problems that he can do nothing about.
A man assumes she is talking with him about her problems because she is holding him responsible. The more problems, the more he feels blamed. He does not realize that she is talking to feel better.
To expect a man who is in his cave instantly to become open, responsive, and loving is as unrealistic as expecting a woman who is upset immediately to calm down and make complete sense. It is a mistake to expect a man to always be in touch with his loving feelings just as it is a mistake to expect a woman’s feelings to always be rational and logical.
A way of honoring another Venusian is to listen patiently with empathy, seeking truly to understand the other’s feelings.
A way of honoring another Martian is always to assume he can solve his problem unless he is asking for help.
Talking about a problem on Mars is an invitation for advice.
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“A man who thinks all day about the catch he missed because of stormy weather ends up wasting time when the sky is clear.”
Mat felt sorry for this poor fool caught sneaking into the palace. Maybe the man was an assassin, but he could just be a beggar or other fool looking for excitement. Or he could be …
… the Dragon Reborn.