Muhammet Ali ATİCİEL
@Muhammedt72
(م~ع)
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Gariptir! İnsan bazen tamamıyla zahir olan şeylerden gafil kalır da en hafi şeyleri hisseder buna, beşer fikrinin gizli şeyleri tecessüs meyelanının açık şeyleri ihmalde bırakması bir sebep olabilir.
...Bu müşkül tereddüd devresinde anamın bir sözünü hatırladım. O derdi ki:
«- Oğlum! Elin ağzına elli arşın bez olsa yetişmez. Dilin kemiği yoktur. Bin türlü döner. Bu sebeple söz boş şeydir. Herkes
In short, self-absorption in all its forms kills empathy, let alone compassion. When we focus on ourselves, our world contracts as our problems and preoccupations loom large. But when we focus on others, our world expands. Our own problems drift to the periphery of the mind and so seem smaller, and we increase our capacity for connection-or compassionate action.
Memes may one day be understood as mirror neurons at work Their unconscious scripting steers much of what we do, particularly when we are on "automatic." But the subtle power of memes to make us act often eludes detection.
Consider their surprising power to prime social interactions. In an experiment one group of volunteers heard a list of cue words that referred to impoliteness, such as "rude" and "obnoxious," while another group heard cue words like "considerate" and "po lite." They then were put in a situation where they had to deliver a message to someone who was talking with another person. Two out of three of those primed for rudeness butted in to interrupt, while eight of ten primed for politeness waited the full ten minutes for the conversation to end before speaking up.
That wavelength-sensing waitress embodies the principle that getting in synch yields an interpersonal benefit. The more two people unconsciously synchronize their movements and mannerisms during their interaction, the more positively they will feel about their encounter-and about each other.
The subtle power of this dance was revealed in a clever set of ex experiments with students at New York University who volunteered for what they thought was an evaluation of a new psychological test. One at a time they sat with another student-actually a confederate of the researchers-and judged a series of photos for the supposed test. The confederate was instructed to either smile or not, to shake his foot or rub his face while they went through the pictures.
Whatever the confederate did, the volunteers tended to mimic. Face-rubbing elicited face-rubbing, a smile primed a smile in return. But careful questioning later revealed that the volunteers had no idea they had been smiling or shaking their foot in imitation; nor had they noticed the choreographed mannerisms.