When we hate someone,
we think about him a lot.
Unable to let him go,
we gradually begin to act like him.
Don't let him become a long-term tenant of the heart.
Evict him right away with a notice of forgiveness.
Does the person you hate
deserve to be carried around in your heart?
Keep in your heart only those who love you.
Trying to convince someone to adopt our views is largely the work of our ego. Even if we turn out to be right, our ego knows no satisfaction and seeks a new argument to engage in.