Guliyeva Dunya: Love is also, and equally, about weakness, about being touched bhy another's fragilities and sorrows, especially when (as happens in the early days) we are ourselves are in no danger of being held responsible for them. Seeing our lover despondent and in crisis, in tears and unable to cope, can reassure us that, for all their virtues, they are not alienatingly invincible. They, too, are at points confused and at sea, a realization which lends us a new supportive role,reduce our sense of shame about our own inadequacies and draws us closer to each other around a shared experience of pain.,

Love is also, and equally, about weakness, about being touched bhy another's fragilities and sorrows, especially when (as happens in the early days) we are ourselves are in no danger of being held responsible for them. Seeing our lover despondent and in crisis, in tears and unable to cope, can reassure us that, for all their virtues, they are not alienatingly invincible. They, too, are at points confused and at sea, a realization which lends us a new supportive role,reduce our sense of shame about our own inadequacies and draws us closer to each other around a shared experience of pain.,

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The Course of Love Alain de Botton

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