''Acceptance is essentially an emotional challenge. While we can make a logical decision to accept an unpleasant reality, this does not flip a switch to produce the emotional acceptance we desire. Full acceptance requires the maturity to embrace all emotional reactions while not being overly identified with them. ''
There was a saying in the 1960s that went: “Becoming is better than
being.” The fixed mindset does not allow people the luxury of becoming.
They have to already be.