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@ssoulmuse
Mini documentation of what I read and learn *for my short- attention span brain*
no alarms, no surprises.
10 Ocak 2002
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To stay human is to break a limitation.
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Could I picture shooting myself here? Definitely.
Catholic and his family slaughtered goats in the backyard. So he always smelled sort of biblical. Like incense and roasted flesh.
NO MEANS NO
it’s so predictable. a man who doesn’t take no for an answer when women say no. I wondered why? why would someone think that women don’t mean NO when they say NO. it’s my own traumas, my own scars. I say no, they start to blame me, I disagree, they start to blame me. I get harassed, they say to me to CALM DOWN. I am built with pain just like any woman, and it’s all so predictable now. A man’s finger will always point to a woman to blame. And I don’t even meddle in it anymore. I avoid, don’t ask for justice because justice is owned by men, don’t teach because in a real sense they won’t learn. that’s just how it is. that’s how they are. those who disagree will be men, of course, or people who are swooned.
He may only understand and believe in the dynamics of power, of one-up and one-down, of a sadomasochistic struggle for domination, and, ironically, he may feel “safer” when he is operating within these paradigms.
When we are committed to doing the work of love we listen even when it hurts.