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Bu araştırmaya katıldığınızda aynı form size Eylül ayında da iletilecek ve doldurmanız istenecektir. Toplanan veriler yalnızca bilimsel araştırma amacıyla kullanılacaktır. Formu doldurduktan sonra sorularınız olursa mesaj atabilirsiniz 🌸
“It’s dark because you are trying too hard.
Lightly child, lightly. Learn to do everything lightly.
Yes, feel lightly even though you’re feeling deeply.
Just lightly let things happen and lightly cope with them.
I was so preposterously serious in those days, such a humorless little prig.
Lightly, lightly – it’s the best advice ever given me.
When it comes to dying even. Nothing ponderous, or portentous, or emphatic.
No rhetoric, no tremolos,
no self conscious persona putting on its celebrated imitation of Christ or Little Nell.
And of course, no theology, no metaphysics.
Just the fact of dying and the fact of the clear light.
So throw away your baggage and go forward.
There are quicksands all about you, sucking at your feet,
trying to suck you down into fear and self-pity and despair.
That’s why you must walk so lightly.
Lightly my darling,
on tiptoes and no luggage,
not even a sponge bag,
completely unencumbered.”
― Aldous Huxley , Island
How do we view the good and the bad? And how do we deal with the tragedies? Do we fall into the pity pool, drown, or swim out? Some of us just tread water, which goes with a fixed or negative mindset. With mindset comes strength. We learn to be resilient. Resilience is a learned pattern of thoughts and behaviors. It is how we react to circumstances. It is how well we react to the world, even when we feel it is falling apart. It all comes down to mindset.
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