Acı çekmek bir tercih meselesidirKişisel gelişim - Edebiyat
Hayatta her birimiz bir şeyleri başarmak için mücadele içindeyiz. Ya buna katlanır devam edersin ya da pes edersin. Yazarın da söylediği gibi 𝐚𝐜𝛊 𝐜̧𝐞𝐤𝐦𝐞𝐤 𝐛𝐢𝐫 𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐜𝐢𝐡 𝐦𝐞𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐢𝐫.
1980'lerden bu yana egzersiz sloganı olarak kullanılan "ℕ𝕠 𝕡𝕒𝕚𝕟, 𝕟𝕠 𝕘𝕒𝕚𝕟." mottosunu sadece egzersizde değil aynı zamanda hayatta başarıyı yakalamak istiyorsanız her konuda bunu uygulayabilirsiniz. Kendinizi zorlamadan acıyı, mücadeleyi seçmeden bir şey elde edemezsiniz. Hedeflerinizi ciddiye alıp çok profesyonel yaklaşmanız gerekmektedir. İşte bu noktada yazarın tam olarak yaptığı budur. Tek farkı severek yapmasıdır. Sevmediğiniz, keyif almadığınız bir şeyi rutininize uzun süre dahil edemezsiniz.
Yazar koşmaya başlamadan önce üniversiteden sonra caz bar tarzı bir yer işletmeye başlar. Sabahtan gece yarılarına kadar çalışıyor bir de üstüne o yorgunlukla yılmadan1-1.5 saat yazma eylemini sürdürmeye çalışıyordu. Ama eserlerinde tam odaklı bir yazma olmadığı kanısındaydı. Tam bu noktada yazarlığı profesyonel boyuta taşımak için barı tüm haklarıyla devretmeyi düşündü ve uyguladı. Çünkü onun karakterinde tek işe odaklanıp sınırlarını zorlamak vardır. Bu yüzden kırsal bir alana taşındı. Normalde bar işletirken geç saatlerde uyanıp yatma alışkanlığı kazandığı yaşam döngüsünü kökten değiştirip eşinin de bunu desteklemesiyle her gün 22.00'dan önce uyuma ve 05.00'ten önce uyanma rutinini hayatına ekler ve bunun sonucunda gece hayatı bitse de insan ilişkilerinde gerileme yaşasa da bundan memnundur çünkü insanın zamanını düzenleyip neye odaklanacağını seçmesi insanın bir şeyleri başarabilmesi için bir hayat koşuludur. Zaman bize verilmiş sınırlı ve geri dönüşü olmayan bir hediyedir. Kullanmazsan geçip gider ve tekrar eline alman mümkün değildir. Yazar bu rutini hayatına koymasıyla zamanı daha verimli
💎THE GRAVITY OF US
💎The 4th book in the ‘Elements’ series was again great just like the first three books! I truly love how Brittainy C. Cherry makes me feel while reading her words. I get sad, I get angry and I get happy at the same time and I love every moment😍
💎Lucy and her sister Mari has a floral shop. Lucy goes to a big funeral for flower organizations and learns that her favourite bestseller author G.M. Russell’s father died and the funeral was his. Lucy and Graham meets; but they are so different from each other: While Lucy lives every feeling freely and smiles all the time, Graham never lets himself feel and he never smiles. Graham had very bad issues with his late father in the past and he has become this cold, feelingless man because of his father. That night they realize that Graham is married and about to have a baby with Lucy’s sister, Lyric. Lucy and Lyric haven’t spoken for years and Lyric never told Graham she had sisters. When Lyric has to have an early C-section and the baby is put in NICU, Lyric leaves her baby and Graham. He asks for Lucy’s help with baby Talon but hates asking for help, because he knows from experience that everybody leaves eventually.
💎The characters are deep with their painful pasts, scars, fears and insecurities. Lucy is a wonderful woman who stands by her loved ones as their rock. She gives love even it is never asked and she is exactly what Graham and his fearing heart needs. The fact that Graham is married to Lucy’s sister never disturbed me because I knew from the start their marriage wasn’t out of love but an arrangement. They never loved each other. But again Lucy and Graham never crossed lines so I loved them much more. Their story is an inspiring one, teaching that love is hard work but worth it.
💎The 1st book in the
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Sexing the Cherry
Postmodernism has become an important part of our life and culture in many ways. Although it is a very common word in today's world, it cannot be expressed as a complete definition. Postmodernism is known for its rebellious approach and willingness to test boundaries. It is an indisputable fact that the word ‘master narrative’ which is so popular among people has collapsed. According to Jean François Lyotard , the postmodern concept is the total expression of a process that includes both changes in material conditions and breaks in the intellectual field. First of all, it is a deep disbelief, or in other words, a radical suspicion.
It is a skepticism of modernity and is concerned with the basic notions of an entire modern project. Lyotard traces and makes sense of this suspicion. In other words, ıt is determined that a dozen concepts related to modernism,called great narrative, such as progress, enlightenment, rationality, freedom, universality are not believable. We can call the new lifestyle that started with this state of doubt postmodernism. Therefore, it is not possible to believe in a single truth, a mere mind, a universal life position and it is impossible to believe that history and progress is a single and universal aspect and to theoretically base it. Undoubtedly, literature is one of the most critical area influenced by postmodernism. One of the most important figures to be categorized as both absurdist and postmodern is Samuel Beckett. A list of postmodern authors often varies; the following are some names of authors often so classified, most of them belonging to the generation born in the interwar period: William Burroughs (1914-1997) Kurt Vonnegut (1922-2007), John Barth (b. 1930), Donald Barthelme (1931-1989), E. L. Doctorow (b.