Ne diyordu Frank Sinatra şarkısında: “Oh, my heart is beating wildly / And it’s all because you’re here. / When I’m not near the girl I love, / I love the girl I’m near.”3 Mükemmel bir hazırda bulunma etkisi. Buna karşı ne yapabiliriz: Sizden farklı düşünen, sizden tamamen farklı deneyimleri olan insanlarla bir araya gelin. Zira tek başınıza hazırda bulunma etkisini yenmek gibi bir şansınız hiç yoktur.
Henry bit his lip. He went to the window and looked out the corner of the shade.
Then he turned around. He still had the pistol. 'Come here,' he said to Camilla.
She looked at him in horror. So did Francis and I.
He beckoned to her with his gun arm. 'Come here, he said.
'Quick.'
I felt faint. What's he doing? I thought, bewildered.
Camilla took a step away from him. Her gaze was terrified.
No, Henry,' she said, 'don't.
To my surprise, he smiled at her. 'You think I'd hurt you?' he said. 'Come here.'
She went to him. He kissed her between the eyes, then whispered something - what, I've always wondered - in her ear.
I've got a key, the innkeeper yelled, pounding away at the door. TIl use it.'
The room was swimming. Idiot, I thought wildly, just try the knob.
Henry kissed Camilla again. 'I love you,' he said. Then he said, out loud: 'Come in.'
The door flew open. Henry raised the arm with the gun. He's going to shoot them, I thought, dazed; the innkeeper and his wife, behind him, thought the same thing, because they froze about three steps into the room - but then I heard Camilla scream, 'No, Henry!' and, too late, I realized what he was going to do.
He put the pistol to his temple and fired, twice. Two flat cracks. They slammed his head to the left. It was the kick of the gun, I think, that triggered the second shot.
His mouth fell open. A draft, created by the open door, sucked the curtains into the gap of the open window.
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Ne diyordu Frank Sinatra şarkısında: “Oh, my heart is beating wildly / And it’s all because you’re here. / When I’m not near the girl I love, / I love the girl I’m near.” 3 Mükemmel bir hazırda bulunma etkisi. Buna karşı ne yapabiliriz: Sizden farklı düşünen, sizden tamamen farklı deneyimleri olan insanlarla bir araya gelin. Zira tek başınıza hazırda bulunma etkisini yenmek gibi bir şansınız hiç yoktur.
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Hazırda bulunma etkisi
Ne diyordu Frank Sinatra şarkısında: “Oh, my heart is beating wildly / And it’s all because you’re here. / When I’m not near the girl I love, / I love the girl I’m near.”("Ah, kalbim deli gibi çarpıyor / Ve sırf sen buradasın diye / Sevdiğim kızın yanında değilsem eğer / Hangi kız varsa yanımda onu severim.” ) Mükemmel bir hazırda bulunma etkisi. Buna karşı ne yapabiliriz: Sizden farklı düşünen, sizden tamamen farklı deneyimleri olan insanlarla bir araya gelin. Zira tek başınıza hazırda bulunma etkisini yenmek gibi bir şansınız hiç yoktur.
The waiting was interminable. I do not know how much time passed on the clock, that nameless and universal time of clocks that is alien to our emotions, to our destinies, to the inception and ruin of love, to a death vigil. But by my own time it was a vast and complex temporal space filled with figures and turnings back, at times a dark and
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In fact, the need to be near someone special is so important that the brain has a biological mechanism specifically responsible for creating and regulating our connection with our attachment figures (parents, children, and romantic partners). This mechanism, called the attachment system, consists of emotions and behaviors that ensure that we remain safe and protected by staying close to our loved ones. The mechanism explains why a child parted from his or her mother becomes frantic, searches wildly, or cries uncontrollably until he or she reestablishes contact with her. These reactions are coined protest behavior, and we all still exhibit them as grown-ups. In prehistoric times, being close to a partner was a matter of life and death, and our attachment system developed to treat such proximity as an absolute necessity.
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Ne diyordu Frank Sinatra şarkısında: “Oh, my heart is beating wildly
And it’s all because you’re here.
When I’m not near the girl I love,
I love the girl I’m near.”
“Ah, kalbim deli gibi çarpıyor
Ve sırf sen buradasın diye
Sevdiğim kızın yanında değilsem eğer
Hangi kız varsa yanımda onu severim.”
Ne diyordu Frank Sinatra şarkısında: “Oh, my heart is beating wildly / And it’s all because you’re here. / When I’m not near the girl I love, / I love the girl I’m near."(Ah, kalbim deli gibi çarpıyor / Ve sırf sen buradasın diye / Sevdiğim kızın yanında
değilsem eğer / Hangi kız varsa yanımda onu severim.” )
"These positive feelings are taken to an extreme in this case, causing the user to dissociate from his or her environment and act wildly and recklessly. "
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Frank Sinatra
“Oh, my heart is beating wildly / And it’s all because you’re here. / When I’m not near the girl I love, / I love the girl I’m near.”