The book Second Self's Sapling by Victor Eremita "it is hard and sometimes impossible to take your Zero Self back. Most of us live our lives without realizing this, behave as if we did not have this before and continue living with our First and Second Selves, sometimes we call both of them together as Others. Being Others is a gradual process and very convincing, which seems right for us or we tend to think this is who we are, whereas we accept willingly to lose our Zero Self. But once we find out The Truth, we are inevitably exposed to existential crisis which causes rules, values and traditions to start dying and makes us question them. Firstly, we start losing Zero Self at the process of nurturing, being raised by groups (a family) who might differ from each other in aspects of language, traditions, customs, religion, social class and so on, while gaining First Self (familial self). Secondly, we start gaining our Second Self in the education process, namely social process with the help of Industrial or Mechanical System which make us products of repetition."