Bir ilişkinin bitişiyle kederlenmek ve “demek ki ben artık hep yalnız kalacağım” gibi düşüncelerle kendine acımak doğal olsa da, yılgınlık duygusunu artıracağı kesindir. Bir an bunun dışına çıkarak ilişkinin o kadar da harika olmayan taraflarını ve ikinizin uyuşmayan yanlarını düşünmek -yani kaybınızı farklı, daha olumlu bir açıdan görm ek- üzüntünün ilacıdır.
Although it is natural to feel sad after the end of a relationship and to feel sorry for oneself with thoughts such as "so I will always be alone from now on", it is certain that it will increase the feeling of frustration. Taking a moment to step outside of that and think about the not-so-great parts of the relationship and the parts of you that don't fit together—that is, seeing your loss in a different, more positive light—is the antidote to sadness.
Sayfa 111 - Varlık Yayınları 33. BasımKitabı okudu
Sorry Nuri.. Herkes Herşeyi Biliyor...
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İnsanın meşgul olmadığı şeye aklı ermemesi ayıp değil...
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Sayfa 56 - İNKILÂP
Sorry
“Ben hep mutsuz oldum. Ama seninle hayatımın değişeceğini sandım. Ama sen de herkes kadar kötüsün. Erkeklerden nefret ediyorum!”
Sayfa 359Kitabı okudu
“I’m sorry.”
“It’ll get better,” is all he says.
God, I wish I had his faith.
"Üzgünüm."
Onun tek söylediği, "Her şey daha iyiye gidecek."
Tanrım, keşke onun inancına sahip olsaydım.
Garanti oluyorsun maalesef. Çantada keklik hatta. I’m so sorry to say that
-O sizi sevmiyor mu?
-Seviyor herhalde.
-Peki, ya ben? Ben neci oluyorum…
Sayfa 11Kitabı okudu
Sorry to interrupt you .
Sözünü kestiğim için üzgünüm.
Sixteen years don't change because you're sorry. You call yourself her father. Hearts don't change for that reason.
:D
Anyway, if Leyla and I can together, it will be the end of World. I can hear that you say "oh my god! " We are the main causes of naturel disasters. Ups! Sorry :( But mukadderat (I can not translate it).
Sayfa 228
The Road Not Taken
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
I also felt like a moron feeling sorry for myself, because I was not the one whose life was literally about to end.
Sayfa 205Kitabı okudu
Dear NASA
How are you? We OK! But we have a problem. We have a big problem. We have a very very big problem. Me and Leyla (she is a my girl love) we can not come together. No together. So, impossible love. Love story. Giant's love. Like Shrek. Do you know Shrek? Anyway, if Leyla and I can together, it will be the end of World. I can hear that you say "oh my god!" We are the main causes of nature! disasters. Ups! Sorry :(But mukadderat (I can not translate it) I think that you have to help us. And if you save us, you save the World. Yes, it's weird. We want to buy spaceship from you. Leyla and Igo to another planet by this spaceship. We will be happy there. If we have a child we will give your name to him or her: NASA! You happy? This spaceship is our bride car. I look forward to hearing from you soon.
And İsmail Abi says that you don't work hard. Because sıyırırsın.
Best regards
Mecnun Ç. and Ismail A.
Mektubu gönderdik. Ardından beklemeye başladık. Günler, haftalara, haftalar aylara, aylar yıllara dönmeden cevap geldi. Tam da umudumu kesmiş ve yeni çareler aramaya başlayacakken NASA'dan gelen bu mektup yeniden hayata tutunmamı sağladı. Büyük bir heyecanla zarfı yırttım. Mektubu açtım ve NASA'dan gelen cevabı okudum.
"No!"
Oh, I’m sorry! I didn’t mean to scare you.
Oh, üzgünüm! Seni korkutmak istemedim.